John T. Konecki, M.D., Nana’s husband, would have been 100 years old today. They were married on this day in 1943.
FALMOUTH – Ruth Nihan Konecki, 93, of Field Road, Falmouth, widow of Dr. John T. Konecki, retired nurse, and beloved family matriarch known as “Super Nana,” died at home on March 29, 2014 in the company of her family and following a lengthy illness.
The only daughter of George and Annie Katherine (Rogers) Nihan, Ruth was born on August 15, 1920 in Lynn, Mass. She spent her younger years in the company of her six brothers, and enjoyed summers on Lake Attitash in Amesbury. A 1938 graduate of Lynn English High School, Ruth earned her nursing diploma at Lynn Hospital. She later worked as an emergency room nurse at the former Haynes Memorial Hospital, where she met Dr. Konecki of South Portland. Knowing that Ruth hailed from the Boston area, he asked her to accompany him on an ambulance run to provide street directions to avoid his getting lost. They got lost anyway, but found each other and were married in Boston on Feb. 17, 1943.
When her husband joined the Army Medical Corps during World War II, Ruth accompanied him to New Orleans during his training. She returned to Lynn when he was assigned to the European Theater. After the war they moved to Portland where Dr. Konecki maintained a medical office on Washington Avenue. The couple returned to Lynn when he began the study of radiology. In 1954 they moved to Auburn, Maine when Dr. Konecki became Chief of Radiology at St. Mary’s Hospital in Lewiston. He died in 1976. Ruth moved to Lewiston in 1985, and then to Falmouth in 1995 where she lived with her daughter, Nancy and family.
Ruth was a sports fan and enjoyed playing tennis and was an especially devoted fan of the Boston Red Sox and particularly took great delight in their three championship years. Although she was not an avid traveler, she experienced memorable trips to Europe, the Caribbean, Mexico and the Hawaiian islands. She loved dogs and cats and her daughters’ horses, and enjoyed feeding and watching birds. She also delighted in seeing the many deer, turkeys and foxes in her Field Road neighborhood.
Ruth formerly served as a Eucharistic minister at St. Philip’s Church in Auburn, and more recently was a communicant of Holy Martyrs Church in Falmouth.
In addition to her parents, Ruth was predeceased by her six brothers, George, Robert, her twin Roger, William, Leonard, and John ‘Jack’ Nihan. A son and daughter-in-law, Dr. John T. Konecki, Jr. and Susan Skinner, also predeceased her.
Survivors include four children, Katherine Wellehan and her husband Jim of Auburn, Thomas Konecki and his wife Michelle of Benicia, Calif., Ruth Delahanty and her husband Tom, and Nancy Terison and her husband Mark, all of Falmouth; 13 grandchildren; and nine great-grandchildren.
At Ruth’s request, there will be no visiting hours. Funeral services will be held Saturday, May 24, 11 a.m. at St. Philip’s Church in Auburn. Condolences, donations, and a video tribute may be accessed online at www.albert-burpee.com.
In lieu of flowers, donations are requested for:
Hospice of Southern Maine
180 U.S. Route One
Scarborough, Maine 04074
Nana: “What’d you have for lunch?”
MT: “I got some sushi. I’ve been eating a lot of it lately.”
Nana: “Can’t you afford some real food? Oh dear, let me get you some money.”
MT: [lists all the John Thomases and Thomas Johns]
Nana: “…and I got one that’s somethin’ to do with a turtle. And a Russian. Svet Svet Svet. It’s SVETlana.”
Nana, sitting in the dark: “That’s Chooch and Tom’s house. It’s lit up like Broadway!”
Nana: “Who can I sue? I want to be [Kristian’s] first customer. I’m serious.”
Showing Nana Siri…
MT: “Nana watch this. Siri, I need to poop.”
Siri: “I’m sorry, I don’t see any public bathrooms near you.”
Nana: “OH! Mary that’s terrible… Do that again.”
Nana: “Does Ashley have to go to a school tomorrow?”
JT: “She’s not sure yet, they call her in the morning.”
Nana: “What kind of a job is that? How can you plan your day? We need to go to breakfast!”
Nana: “I never told your mother that. You can tell her after I’m dead”
Nana: Give Johnny this sandwich.
NT: I’ll let him know he can have it if he wants it.
Nana: …make him want it.
KT: What’s this bottle from Nana?
Nana: That mooky-gooky stuff you drink
KT: Kombucha tea?
Nana to Chooch regarding her upcoming cruise…
Nana: “You heard what happened to that cruise ship in Italy and you’re still goin’? I’d rather be hung.”
Nana: “There’s that Chinese church!”
JT: “Yeah Nana, they are Christians too, just like you.”
Nana: “I wonder, does their God look Chinese?”
There is a long pause. After a minute of pensive reflection…
Nana: “He must.”
Nana: “I can’t wait to see Madonna! I’m sick of this rough house.”
MT: “I hope she doesn’t have a wardrobe malfunction.”
Nana: “That might be exciting!”
Nana: “Take Kristian’s sheet over to the house.”
NT: “His what?”
Nana: “His sheet.”
NT: “His what?”
Nana: “His sheet! S-H-I-T sheet!”
Nana: “Have you been messing with your hair again?”
Mary: “Yeah, I straightened it!”
Nana: “… God does a better job.”
MT: “Boy, that soup was filling. I’m stuffed. Nana, can you finish it?”
Nana: “No…but I’ve got some cookies!”
JT: “Jimmy has so many letters after his name, he can’t fit his phone number or e-mail on his business card.”
Nana: “Well I wish they’d [sic] shave; he looks like …overseas.”
Nana: “I don’t want to be one of those hunched over old crabs. I used to see them when I was younger and I’d think of that song ‘straighten up and die right.'”
KT: “I thought it was ‘straighten up and fly right’?”
Nana: “Ohhh… that does make more sense.”